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Eline Zegers - Flirting and Dating for Gay Women

A Practical Guide Book For An Amazing Love Life

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Many women are afraid to approach and flirt with other women. The result is that no one makes a first move, wasting many opportunities for female relationships. Such a shame! And totally unnecessary. This guide book will provide you insight in how attraction works and navigates you through the female dating jungle towards your Princess Charming.

Learn how to become better at flirting, seduction, and dating with other women, and how to become the most attractive version of yourself. The dating process is explained from A to Z in recognizable situations, common problems, and personal stories. From approaching someone to kissing. From flirting to asking for someone's number. From dating to declaring your love. Take action, find that wonderful partner (or fling(s)) and have an amazing love life.

Published in May 2022 | Paperback | 160 pages | ca. 47,000 words
Dutch edition published by Bertram + de Leeuw

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ABOUT THE AUTHOR

Eline Zegers came out as a lesbian after graduating Law School at the University of Utrecht. And because flirting and dating with women turned out to be more complicated than she thought, she had little success with love. To improve her love life, she devoured books, articles, and videos about attraction. She put these lessons into practice in her nightlife and the lesbian scene. Eline has become an experience expert in flirting, dating, and seduction, and is a dating coach.

RECOMMENDATION

'Even though I am not part of the primary target group, I have read this book in one evening. It describes how to seduce or date another woman in a humorful and frank way, complimented with personal experiences. Easy to read with all the do's and don'ts of dating another woman. A wonderful insight and a must-read for beginners and advanced women on the rocky road to love.' - Reader's review

TABLE OF CONTENTS

INTRODUCTION
How it all started
Why I wrote this book
Reading guide
Disclaimer

THE BASICS
You can learn seduction
Attraction
Fact versus feeling
Thrill
Hunters and gatherers
Princess Charming
Use your experience
Keep it cool
What do you want?
Pink glasses
Mindset
Flirting

MEETING WOMEN
Gay bar
Gay party or festival
The regular bar
Going out by yourself
Dating apps and websites
Parties of friends
Speeddating
Gay activities
While having a wonderful life
Everywhere
Recognize a lesbian/bisexual woman

MAKING CONTACT
If you already know her
If you don't know her
Yes, but...

HAVING GREAT CONVERSATIONS
Training your conversational muscles
Starting a conversation
Using statements
Talking about her
Talking about yourself
Talking about us
Talking about the surroundings
Talking about sex
Dropping silence
Involving her friends into the conversation
Surviving her test questions
Non-verbal communication

PHYSICAL CONTACT
Touching
Kissing
Taking the lead and dominance

YOUR TELEPHONE NUMBER AS A FLIRTING MACHINE
Getting her telephone number easily
The importance of good calling skills
Calling
The goal of sending messages
Keeping momentum
The first messages
Proposing a date
Exchanging messages
Your reaction time
Spoken messages
Common problems

DATING APPS AND WEBSITES
Which dating app or website?
Photo's
Your profile
The opening line
The goal of the conversation
Getting her telephone number
Proposing a date

DATING
The first date
Follow-up dates
Preparing for a date

BEING FRANK
Being frank about attraction
Being frank about infatuation
Being frank about your relation wishes
Being frank about your sexuality
Being frank about sex

ATTRACTIVE QUALITIES AND APPROPRIATE BEHAVIOR
What qualities do you find attractive?
Leadership
A passion
Considerate
Attentive
Complimentary
Humor
Vulnerability
Cheeky
Playful
A perfect average

TURN-OFFS
Having no opinion
Not showing interest
Listening autobiographically and hijacking the conversation
Indecision
Insecurity
Putting her on a pedestal

ALSO GOOD TO KNOW
Setting standards
Peacocking
Fear of commitment
Other forms of relationship
Ending the contact
How to become the ultimate womanizer

IN CLOSING
Acknowledgements
Sources

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